Meet Desirée Elder
Pastor. Author. Church girl, still in recovery.
Desirée Elder writes and preaches at the intersection of faith, shame, and healing — for the women who stayed in the church too long, left too soon, or are still figuring out what comes next.
Pastor of Development & Innovation, FCBC · Author of Gaslit by God · Featured in ESSENCE & TheGrio
Her mission: make room for the faith you were never given permission to have.
HER Story
Desirée "Pastor Dez" Elder is a pastor, writer, and cultural architect whose work lives at the intersection of faith, community, and honest storytelling.
She serves as Pastor of Development and Innovation at First Corinthian Baptist Church in Harlem — one of the country's most progressive Black congregations — where she has spent over a decade building spaces that invite people to wrestle, heal, and rise.
She is the founder of Church Girl in Recovery, a community for women doing the slow, sacred work of reclaiming faith on their own terms — a gathering place for women who love God, have serious questions about the institution, and are done performing a version of themselves God never required.
As Executive Director of the FCBC Community Development Corporation, she oversees The Dream Center and The Hope Center, providing free, healing-centered programming in education, the arts, mental health, and economic empowerment. Under her leadership, the CDC has secured over $3 million in competitive grants, launched Hope on Wheels — Harlem's first mobile mental health unit — and built more than 45 cross-sector partnerships serving thousands of Harlem residents annually.
As Artistic Director of New Heritage Theatre Group — one of the longest-running Black theatre companies in the country, founded in 1964 — she is the first woman to hold this role in the history of the organization.
A Union Theological Seminary alumna, she is a member of the Writers Guild of America East, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc., and a 2026 New York Foundation for the Arts Executive Leaders of Color Fellow.
Her debut book, Gaslit by God: How I Unlearned My Shame and Reclaimed My Faith (Broadleaf Books, January 2027), is a memoir-driven recovery guide for women unlearning what the church got wrong and reclaiming a faith that honors their full humanity.
She lives in Harlem with her twin daughters.
Beyond the Book
When she's not writing or preaching, you can find her playing New York Times word games, buying earrings she absolutely doesn't need, and attempting to finish one of the seven books on her nightstand.
This is just the beginning
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